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4 man told the story of divorce

Desk Correspondent

Published: 19:42, 25 October 2023

Update: 21:37, 25 October 2023

4 man told the story of divorce

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Love marriage. There is no chaos in the family. There is no lack of trust in two people! Still, why did a man decide to divorce his wife! 4 people told the story of being forced to do this under any circumstances...

I could not accept the deception
"We got married because of our relationship. At first there was a distance with the first wife but later that distance started to be reconciled. I am also in love with my wife. I believed him. I thought he loved me too. But that's when I lost hope. One day I will find out that he cheated!

He had an extra-marital affair with my cousin. I also had proof of that. My heart broke after knowing this. That's when I decided to divorce. It took a year to get out of this relationship...''

Threatened to commit suicide
"My wife had mental problems. He used to threaten me with suicide for very small reasons. For example, I couldn't pick up his phone, then he would start threatening to commit suicide. I was very scared. All the time I was worried.

One day I was late to return from office. I knocked on the door many times. But the wife did not open the door. Then I opened the door with the duplicate key and went inside to see my wife. She was sitting on a chair in the living room, her sari was tied around her neck. I decided that day, I will not be in this relationship anymore. We were in a relationship for 8 years even before marriage, but I have never seen him like this before.'

She was mentally ill
`I was scared to see my wife's behavior. One day in the scorching heat of Chennai, I see him sitting on the roof with a chair. During the day, his body is burning due to the heat of the sun. I was so scared. He went to her and started crying. No answer was given. I thought he might be missing home. So I took him to his father's house. After that he sent me a divorce notice. I was very surprised. Later I came to know that he has mental illness and is undergoing treatment.

She use to tell parents everything
My brother's wife used to call and tell her parents about everything in the family. He even told them about their personal moments. My brother saved money for a long time and got 8-9 lakhs with interest. But his wife sent that money to his father's house. Because he promised to give that money to his brother.

Today my brother is divorced and very happy too. He got that money back. He also bought his own house by making down payment of that money. eisamay dotcom

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